Comments on: this is me, sitting very carefully

By: jenny

jenny — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 19:25:14 +0000

you are so cute to go back and cover that T was a good. i identify with everything you wrote in this entry… also the ass thing.lol.

my ass is the same w/pain and even though i got struck on my back more than my ass.. i have black and blues on my ass that make out as if i was severely beaten…

arnica montana helps if ya need it. happy healing

By: Goose

Goose — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 03:31:55 +0000

I have been learning so much lately about being honest in scenes whether topping or bottoming. I don’t know why it seems hard to ask the top to adjust mid scene. I have, in the past felt like a failure for needing something different and also I’ve sensed that same irritation that we weren’t somehow telepathically connected.
Somehow it seems even more vulnerable to ask for the, “hey ease off a little.” than just taking it…weird huh?

By: Mz. Carmen

Mz. Carmen — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 04:44:14 +0000

It’s good that you both talked about it. I know tht many times we all think that we should be able to read minds and reactions, but sometimes it really doesn’t click mentally.

I suppose this is also something you can learn as well if it ever happens when you Top T.

There are also days when our bodies react strange and it interferes with the headspace. Nobody’s fault really, but it’s those times that something out of the ordinary should raise little red flags.

I tend to check in alot with a casual play partner if I am topping them, I tend not to do that so much once I know them fairly well.